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Welcome, SITStas about Town!

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Well hello there, SITStas. I can hardly believe this day is here. I literally slapped my own face in delight (ouch!) when I got the email announcing my feature day was coming up.

For those who still don’t know, SITS is an amazing community of 6000-strong bloggers (and counting) who offer feedback, advice and support to fellow members. Every true SITSta gets their moment in the spotlight and today is all about me. I’ve even got my party hat on!

So welcome to Babes about Town, a city guide for parents in London and beyond. My aim is to inspire new parents to recover their cool and to rediscover the joys of city living – even with nippers in tow.

To that end, I like to check out hot spots around town with my little homies – Ezra, aged 4 going on 14:

And Jed, 18 months and a full blown toddlerist.

Aside from reviewing events, restaurants, products and all that good stuff, you’ll also catch me rambling on about having my Breasts Interrupted, the thorny issue of Trying for a Girl and the weird but wonderful impact of motherhood in my post 10 Most Surreal Mummy Moments.

Please enjoy your stay, subscribe for updates and don’t hesitate to leave feedback. I’ll try and respond to every single comment.

I’ve met some pretty cool chicks via SITS and I’m looking forward to getting to know more of you!

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About Uju

Uju Asika is a writer, blogger and creative consultant. She is the author of Raising Boys Who Do Better: A Hopeful Guide for a New Generation (DK/Penguin Random House), Bringing Up Race: How to Raise a Kind Child in a Prejudiced World (Yellow Kite/Hachette UK) and the delightful picture book A World for Me and You, illustrated by Jennie Poh (Hachette Children's Group). Uju's books are available at Bookshop.org, Amazon, Waterstones and other good bookshops. Follow Uju @babesabouttown on Twitter/Facebook/Instagram.

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  1. Cheryl D.

    Congrats on your SITS Day! Your boys are so gorgeous! That’s great that you take them out and about all over London! I’ve been terrible about taking my daughter and and about Los Angeles! LOL!

  2. misssrobin

    Congratulations on your special day. I hope today brings you lots of new followers and tons of comment love.

    You have a beautiful blog. I’m off to explore!

  4. Jade @ No Longer 25

    Good morning and happy SITS day to you! I’m looking forward to reading some of your London suggestions – I’ve not got kids, although I’m really still a big kid at heart. I love London so much, there’s so much to do there.

    We try to get down at least two or three times a year (from Aberdeen) there’s just so much to do and see. Hopefully in the future we’ll be able to show our own family our favourite parts of the big smoke.

    Have a lovely day,
    Jade

  8. Lynn from For Love or Funny

    I was so glad to see that you’re featured on SITS today! I love your “real” take on motherhood, and the deep love you have for your little boys is always evident in your writing. I especially liked “Breasts, Interrupted.” I nursed my children until they weaned themselves, and they were never sick during that time. When they got into school, part of me wished they were still nursing so that we could prevent some of the colds they were catching! Have a wonderful day in the spotlight!

  9. Cook Clean Craft

    Congrats on your SITS day!

    There’s a good chance we’ll be moving to London in a year or two for my husband’s work – he’ll be doing fly-in fly-out, so maybe I should start doing research about what to do with two little ones in tow in London.

    Your boys are adorable!

  10. Sunday

    I love when SITS features a blogger from another country. Its a chance for me to learn more about a new place.
    Your description of small children as “nippers” had me laughing because all I could envision was a small ankle-biting type doggie chasing me and I realized that adequately described my children when they were toddlers! Truth be told, they’re both still quite nippy!

  11. Reenie

    Happy SITS day!
    Love your blog, I just enjoyed an eyeful of your post about gender disappointment. I have seen my own mother wanting another daughter very longingly when she was pregnant with my brother… I still feel it’s unfair that he is aware that the parents wanted girls… But maybe I think too much.
    Enjoyed your post. May I say you are very lovely? And cute kids.
    All the best.

  12. Heather

    What a wonderful blog! Your boys are SO good looking! I love how you incorporate your reviews as well! I’m off to read! Have a great SITS day!

  18. Kasey

    Congrats on your day! I loved your post on gender disappointment. I have to say that I can understand wanting both a boy and a girl but I agree with you that perspective is everything. It’s so easy to get consumed with what we want and forget what we have and perhaps swapping with women who can not have children would remind them how lucky they are. I’m not saying that they can’t hope for a girl but they should be grateful for their boys.

    Can’t wait to check out more posts!

  21. TornadoTwos

    Happy SITS day! Sounds like you get out-and-about with your little guys and have a lot of fun! I admire that, too often I stay home because I think it’ll be too much work to take my 3 out of the house. Looking around your blog for some inspiration!

  27. Mandi

    And I am looking forward to getting to know more about you! How cool it must be to live in London! Wow! Your kids are absolutely gorgeous too! Congratulations on your SITS day!! I hope you have a blast!

  28. Elizabeth

    Happy SITS Day! I’m fixing to start work but will be checking out your blog later on my break. I love London but we haven’t visited in 2 years now. Maybe it’s time to head back, this time with Kiddo.

  31. Elizabeth

    HAPPY SITS DAY!
    I’ve been by before…I remember reading your breast feeding entry. It always amazes me how small the blogging world can be even when you’re in London, I’m in Holland, and I most likely found you through an American blog.
    Makes me proud to be a part of such a strong blog community. Enjoy your day in the spotlight!
    Oh yea…and JUST last weekend I was in London…man was it fabulous!

  33. Carrie

    Congrats on your SITS day. I’ve been dreaming of visiting London for years. Now I can just wander through your blog for a taste of London life :)

  34. Lynn

    Happy SITS day! London is my absolute favoritest city in the world. I used to live in Amsterdam and hopped over with regularity. Of course, this was pre-kids so I wasn’t worried about family friendly activities. Now that I’m a mom, I don’t think I’ll get back for a while. But I’d love to take my daughter someday.

  38. Erica

    Hope you enjoy every minute of your special day. What a great thing to do . . .end dog poopy on the streets. I mean, what is wrong with people? One of my biggest pet peeves is going for a walk with my little one, and having to go around dog “poop” on the sidewalk. Congrats on your SITS day!

  41. Katherine

    Congrats on your SITS day. Your boys are just beautiful! I’m excited to check out your blog, even if small-town Midwestern USA is about as different from London as you can get.

  43. Michelle

    Congratulations on your SITS day from here in the States! I seem to always get excited when I discover a new blogger who lives in another part of the world – it’s like virtual travel for me minus the flight anxiety.

    Your blog is lovely, and I’m looking forward to taking the tour.

    Peace. ;)
    Michelle

  51. Karen

    Happy SITS Day!

    I think this is such a cool blog. I’m not a mom, but I can definitely appreciate a good mom-oriented blog when I see one. And I am going to HAVE to read more!

  53. Marianne

    Hi, my first ever SITS comment! Congratulations. I adore London, I was born there and now try to get up there as much as I can.Your children are adorable and I look forward to reading more

  56. Jamie R.

    Congratulations on your SITS day! I hope you enjoy all of your comments and visitors. Those sure are some CUTE little boys. I loved reading your post about gender disappointment. I am pregnant with my second son and was actually depressed for a few days following the news of carrying another boy. I really wanted a girl and now I feel so guilty for wishing this precious boy was ever a girl. I’m hoping my boys will be lifelong best friends and will always think their Mamma is the best woman they ever knew. ;)

  58. Julie M.

    I’m looking forward to reading about your adventures in trying for a girl. We’ve been trying to find her for 6 years now and 3 boys later, we’re finally admitting we’re content to leave her where she’s at. I’d still love a girl, but knowing me, I’d get a fourth boy!

    Enjoy your SITS day!

  63. Mama Mary

    Happy SITS Day!!! Ok, first of all, that picture of Ezra…I die. He’s precious. Secondly, I love all things British so I can’t wait to peruse your site. Cheers!

  64. Losing Brownies

    Happy SITS Day! I love your son’s picture! Ezra was a name on my list for The Boy when we learned his gender. I think it’s a beautiful strong name!

    I’ve only been to England once before, but would love to go back again. I can’t wait to read up on your reviews of places and see if I have been there!

  66. liz

    I think you have such a smart idea for a (niche) blog! And something that many women can find value in.

    Love the photo of you with the feathery headdress!

  67. Helen Hanson

    I love your take on trophy wives! Great theory and you give the term a ripping jump shot, a stinging spike, all with your delightful English spin. Happy SITS!!

  70. Kerry

    First off, your babies are gorgeous! I simply adore listening to little kids speak with a British accent. Can you do a vlog with your kids? ;)

    Second off, your doggy poo campaign is brilliant! Here in Seattle, dog owners are required to pick up the hot steaming poo (eww!) but yet many do not. Not that I blame them but that is part of the reason we don’t have a dog.

  73. DeNae

    Happy, happy day, SITSta! I have to say, whatever other talents you may possess, clearly your number one superpower is producing BEAUTIFUL children! I don’t always gush over other people’s kids, but holy smokes! Yours are adorable.

    I’m commenting now, becaue I’m not sure if I’ll have time later. But I expect to spend some time on your site later today.

    Enjoy your day, and tell Miz Elizabeth, YOU’RE queen today!

  74. PatriciaD

    Congrats on your day!! How exciting. And I LOVE London, wish I could be there now. I live in Missouri (USA) but love to travel. Your babies are sooooo cute.
    I know a family who kept having boys and wanted a girl and wanted a girl and wanted, well you get the idea. Finally they had 5 boys and she got pregnant again…and had twin girls!! Be careful what you wish for, huh!!

  76. OMG! Yummy

    Love your blog! congrats on your SITS day! enjoyed your post about dog doo tremendously. I live in a gated community in California with all kinds of restricting Homeowner’s Assoc. rules presumably because people want to live in a pristine, safe, clean environment and yet my neighbors regularly leave their dog’s poo on the sidewalk, foliage next to the sidewalk etc. I don’t get the mentality. If you ever catch someone in the act, be sure to toss them one of your little one’s dirty diapers to throw away for you. I think it’s a smashing idea! Hope you have a great day!

  78. Mayra

    Congrats on your SITS day!! Enjoy!!

    I definitely agree on your way of thinking when it comes to wandering the city even with kiddos. Just because they tag along doesn’t it mean it can be lots of fun and you can still find great places.

    Your kiddos are soo cute.

    I already follow your blog.. And get it by email., so just stopping by to wish you a happy SITs Day!!

  79. Jen

    I was reading the post about that tray and bowl thing. I work in a day care and man I wish we had 16 of those. Some meals just cover the floor in food.
    Congrats on the SITS Day.

  80. Jo

    Congratulations on your SITS day.

    Nice to see someone from the U.K. featured.

    Enjoy your special day and keep on rockin’, Mama.

    Peace and serenity,
    ~Jo
    ‘The End Of The Rainbow: Life After Bankruptcy’

  84. Mayra

    I don’t know if my comment went through…=(

    so here I am again..

    Congrats on your SITS Day!! I hope you enjoy!!

    I like taking my kiddo out and wander through the city, it doesn’t have to be boring, it can be pretty cool.
    Your kiddos are cuties.

    I already follow you and subscribe by email, just wanted to wish you a happy SITS Day!!

  86. Amy

    Happy SITS day! Your site is gorgeous and your kids are adorable! I love that you take your kids around the city. I’ve only been to London once but it was amazing!

  90. Hanneke Nelson

    What a bummer I am no longer in the position to pop over to London for the weekend and try out your wanderings for myself.

    Happy SITS Day, Uju! Enjoy the comment love today.

  91. Grams

    Stopping by to share the SITS celebration with you. What a great blog! I would have loved this kind of information when I had small kids. Enjoy your day.

  93. Staci

    I’ve got a friend whose not sure about trying for a girl…I’m going to have to go read that blog post!
    So far, I’m loving what I have read. Thanks for sharing!
    And of course, Happy SITS Day.

  98. Charlotte

    Congrats on being the featured SITS blogger today! I don’t have children either, but I have to say, you have something really special going on here. Your kids are the cutest :)

  100. Brenna

    Happy SITS Day! I adore that photo of your little Ezra. Adorable. I am so glad I got to check out your site! You have some great perspective. :)

  101. Allyson

    Congrats on your SITS day! It’s so much fun, isn’t it?

    Your kids are adorable and your blog fun.

    Can’t believe that woman in the hair salon would come over and literally tap your child to get off your breast. WOW! Amazing that you took it so calmly. Good for you.

    Hope you enjoyed your big day.

  102. Heather P

    Your children and your blog are delightful! I really like the theme of your blog. I currently live in the States and don’t have any children but, I just borrow my friends kids! I hope to make it to London next year. I am looking forwarding to staying up with your blog. Have a great week!

  104. mangiabella

    getting to you a bit late from SITS sweet bella but lovin the vibe – especially your post on trying for a girl – love that perspective – have a most glorious day today

  105. hotpants

    Being the SITS featured blogger is so much fun. I hope you’ve enjoyed all of the comment love. I’m a little late to the party, but finally made it.

  106. ElizOF

    Hi Uju,
    I totally missed out on your special day! I’m glad I was reviewing some old SITS Girls posts and came across yours… Well, happy Belated SITS Day from one Ibo gal to another. Your kids are adorable and I love what you are doing with your blog. You make me miss London already. I grew up there.
    All the best,
    Eliz

  107. Mesina

    How did I miss your SITS day girl?!?! I’ve been off in Fairyland for a while….but CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!! You so deserve all the bloggy love my friend.

    My love to the little guys and of course you too xx

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